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Sunday, April 24, 2005


Ok pple,i shall put my blog to a whole new dimension.I will try not to says abt my everyday life or else u peepz will bored to death...zzz.......therefore,i decide to post my views on certain issue and try to set my blog readers thinking.....

This week topic is:What type of guys gals are looking for?

I really wonder why some guys who have bad character can have girlfriends?I mean i look myself in the mirror and i dun think i am that bad looking.I have quite a nice character too.*self praise=no praise*
I have a chat with some of my gals pals.I realise from their conversation that those guys are actually double-agents in disguise.To others,they potray one side.To gals,they potray to another side.I really hate to be one of them.If i have to do that to get a girlfriend,i rather be single then.I like to show my true self.I want the gal to love me for who i am and not who i acted.Relationship is all about being true to one another.I always see relationship fails becoz as time passes by,the guy begin to show some signs of their true self and gals realise that the guy is not the one they looking for.
I also hate guys who play arnd with gals juz becoz they have a pretty face.It is pple like them that make guys like me still single till now.I am not lamenting that i am single.I am juz scared other gals who have suffered mentally will scared to get into relationship again.
In conclusion,my stand is this.I rather be true to the gal.Even if my character is a big turn off to them,at least i am being true to her.I can put on a fake mask too.However,i dun wan to con the gal.I wan a long lasting relationship not a short one.
So gals,agree with me?*set u thinking*

~ { 4/24/2005 11:12:00 AM }
surrounded by colours of the rainbow;


Sunday, April 17, 2005


Today is such a long day.
Went to school early for the Mock Q n A session with the nominees.......

Juz imagine i have to listen to 60 odd speeches and have to take note of what they says.I gotta give credits to those who make an effort to impress us.Some are really impressive whereas some really need to work on their speeches.

Then comes a gruelling 3 hr of Q n A where we get to shoot them questions.If you all think sitting down there are very tired,then being an interviewer also very tired lorz.We have to sit thru the whole stuff again and again but nonetheless,it is a great experience.

Now,let me give you all few pointers to make ur speech impressive.
Firstly,make ur audience laugh.Let me give you this quote:"Make your audience laugh for one second,they will remember you forever'.Juz put ur shoes in theirs and think of how they will feel if they hear ur speech and stuff.Create an impact.I think they are not interested in the content but rather how u present the content.
Secondly,try to answer during Q n A session.Answer as much as you can coz that is the only way to gain attention.Try to make pple impress too.Make them react to ur reply.
LAstly,try to know everyone in the sch.You have 60 odd nominees fighting for that 40 seats.Smilez at everyone and anyone u see in sch.Ask them to vote for you.I notice that nominees dun bother smiling at pple and even councillors.remember councillors are the one pulling strings in the J2 level.If you wan the J2 votes,u gotta impress us,councillors too.So,go out and shake more hands.Imagine urself in a real election.U see MPs going around shaking residents' hands,do the same too.Interact with the college.U need their votes.

Yup,so go out and enjoy this election.

~ { 4/17/2005 01:47:00 PM }
surrounded by colours of the rainbow;


Tuesday, April 12, 2005


After reading my class blog,i realise that i have alot to defend and explain myself and my classmates,if you allow me,let me explain and defend myself on the whole issue.It will be a long entry but pls,pls read........

Firstly,let's talk about the econs question.If all of you do realise,our class has the problems of not speaking up and asking questions esp. to the gals.I give you one scenerio but i will not state names.I was flipping thru my econs TYS and realised that in unit 11.4,there is one question i don't understand and i doubt Mr LAwrence has answered that.I ask one of the gals,she also do not know and she ask me why i do not want to bring it up during economics lesson.I can be really selfish and not ask Mr Lawrence the questions at all until i meet up with him personally.However,other pple may haf the same problems too so why not,let's bring it up to him so as to let him explain.I know the bell has rang and stuff but since Mr Lawrence has touched on the unit,i might as well ask him that.But you also know that in the end,he did not even explain himself clearly and spent less than 2 min. on it.Before that,he already has eaten into our breaktime so wad is the big issue of the 2 min. more?I believe you pack ur bag and slowly walked in the canteen and Proof!there goes your 3-4 min. of the break time.

Secondly,abt the walking in late stuff.I just be frank with you.I really dun wish to argue over this small matter.I mean pple do says sth in the fit of the anger.Those that i published are really just some of anger management thingy.However,i do have the problem with one or two people in our class.You can ask Alvin.He can be my witness.If i am late for class,i will walk abit faster.I will not STROLL in.I mean the altitude is atrocious.Once again,i am just pointing to one or two people,NOT everyone.

Listen here,i am not trying to be double headed or wad.THe word used in this context is very exaggerating and i am very hurted that friends acutally used that word on me.Double head means helping friends and foes........are you referring that our class has this deep hatred towards each other?I beg to differ.If all of you have noticed me carefully,do you ever seen me sticking to one group of friends.I DON'T.Notice how i get along with the gals and the guys(albeit the teasing).All this is part of social skill and i hope the class try to pick up.In life,we get all sorts of friends but it is how you deal with them.Sticking with cliches and not trying to break away from it will results in the spirit in our class.I know that not everyone has common topic to talk about but at least,try an effort to sit with the gals.I know the guys will be like saying that the gals don't want to sit with the guys etc. but hey,why can't we GUYS initiate the move first?If all of us see the gals like sitting together,just invite them over to our table or go in and mix around with them lar,i am sure they do not mind.In Lesson,try to sit with them.I know the gals tend to stick together but if we guys show our sincerity,i believe we can work on sth here.Let them slowly know that we are trying to mend the broken fences etc.For example,all of you know the 'war' between xinhui and me.But hey,look at our relationship now.It is all about communciation.No matter who is in the right or wrong,if you just start by talking to each other,the ice is sure going to melt.No point ignoring each other and stuff.It will just worsen the whole situation.

Lastly,i really like our class alot.I always come to sch,not trying to find ways to pon becoz i bond with the class very well.All the cheers and laughters that we have during Mr Kellet lesson and classroom.....*tears*i am sure gg to miss those times when i grow old and start to work.JC life is really very hectic but the class spirit can really lessen the burden and stress.So people and class,let's work towards a happy ending and a loud bang to our years in Nanyang Junior College.

~ { 4/12/2005 02:58:00 PM }
surrounded by colours of the rainbow;


Sunday, April 10, 2005


OKay,i want to comment about Singaporean fashion sense.

Last nite,on my way from tuition,i saw this chinese guy wearing a long sleeve white shirt.From one look,we can see that he is one chao ah beng.Firstly,his hair is dye in purple but the dye is not even and looks like dye only in the center.Secondly,he looks so freaky thin and when he walk,oh man,it looks like a barbarian.I wanted to laugh when i saw him but i don't wish to court trouble.I might kill someone accidentally with a flick of my finger on such a bony guy.then i alighted.Guess what i saw at the bus stop.Another idiot with a bad fashion sense.He wore a punk look with stockings and rings around his body and stuff.What a complete idiot!He still thinks he looks cool with that.Oh my goodness.......can't really stand pple with bad fashion sense.What is wrong with a simple t-shirt and a pair of good old jean...........

Okay,shall blog about my class......
Our class has this bunch of inconsiderate and rude people.I mean if you all are hungry and don't have breakfast and stuff,you all go eat.That one i close one eye la.But what i can't stand is the way u peepz enter the class.Juz a simple word:sorry and then,Bang,bag goes on the table and juz simply sit down.I was late for lesson on tuesday but that was a genuine mistake coz i nv keep track of time.At least,i keep on apologising.I even apologise to him after lesson.I mean even your simple sorry was not a sincere one.Your sorry was becoz you have to apologise not because you WANT to apologise.....as simple as that......

~ { 4/10/2005 12:34:00 PM }
surrounded by colours of the rainbow;


Monday, April 04, 2005


Yup,finally decided on where to sit liaoz.I am going to sit with my class people and my class has 2 tables so i decided to sit with table 2.
They are *drum roll pls*.......
Feng Ji,Jeremy,Marvin,Alvin,me,xinhui,jun ni,qianzi,peyshan.....
We still searching for one more person to fill in the slot...........

CCACO has decided to embark on a secret project and i am the chairman of the project sia.chairman damn jialat.HAve to make sure work evenly spread out and i have to know every notch of the project whereas last time,i juz do my role,the rest other pple settle.....sianz ah....

A level coming in about 218 days...........

~ { 4/04/2005 06:07:00 AM }
surrounded by colours of the rainbow;


Friday, April 01, 2005


Ok.So now i have 3 tables to choose from.My class,my Leadership Training Camp Legolas group and council.......
So i think i be going to the Dinner and Dance after all.My class was like toying with the idea of booking a hotel room in Grand Hyatt so that we can party all nite and also changed in the room rather than going directly from home.It is quite a cool idea anyway.......
Now,must crack my brains to choose the best suit liaoz......
It's quite true that the gals will have to pay more than $80 as they have to make up and look pretty pretty wad.....but hey,it is like only once in a lifetime lar.Money should not be a factor here la.You can spend little yet look pretty wad.It is you who make the clothes pretty not the other way.....lolz.....

~ { 4/01/2005 11:06:00 AM }
surrounded by colours of the rainbow;